
You’re not crazy. You’re just buried under a lifetime of “shoulds” that were never yours to carry.
It’s time to shove them off and finally make decisions that feel like YOU.


You were taught to be the good girl.
The people-pleaser. The one who keeps the peace.
But at what cost?
You’re successful on the outside…
But inside, you’re exhausted, bitter, and wondering:
“Why doesn’t this feel good?”
Because somewhere along the way, you traded your intuition for someone else’s approval.
“Shove Your Shoulds” is your no BS guide to taking it all back... your voice, your clarity, your power.
Identify the sneaky “shoulds” that are driving your decisions.
Detox from guilt, obligation, and overthinking.
Reconnect with your intuition (aka your superpower).
Make decisions with honesty, confidence, and clarity.
Create a life that actually feels GOOD, not just looks good on paper.
This isn’t about burning your life down.
It’s about finally building it around what you really want.
Feels like she’s living someone else’s life.
Struggles to say what she really wants (if she even knows anymore).
Feels stuck in her relationships, work, or motherhood.
Is tired of carrying the weight of everyone else’s expectations.
Wants more than just surface-level success, she wants peace, purpose, and freedom.

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Creator of the Be.Be.Be. Decision-Making Formula™
Jessica helps strong, smart, driven women untangle the mess of their “shoulds,” reclaim their power, and live lives that actually feel true to them.
This book is the culmination of decades of work, in her own life and with women just like you.
She’s not here to sugarcoat.
She’s here to show you what’s possible when you finally trust yourself.